The only obstacles that you have in your life are those in which you allow to be obstacles. Bumps in the road can either be defeating moments or defining moments.
I live by the premise that “nothing real can be threatened” (a course in miracles) and therefore I don’t get hung up on people or things that exit my life. Here is some wisdom for you; real friendships are not threatened by a misunderstanding, by third party gossip, by anything.
Real possessions are not threatened by competition, innovation or other ideas. Anything that is real is surrounded by love and all that love offers. Nothing at all that is real and meant to be divinely in your life, will ever be threatened by fear and it’s offspring and if it is, it wasn’t yours to begin with.