Science shows us that everything is made up of energy. It is the building block of all matter. The same energy that composes your body is the same one that composes the bricks of the house you live in, your car, your phone, animals, trees and so forth. It’s all the same. It is constantly at flow, changing form all the time.

Energy is everywhere, and what science has shown us is that energy is neither created nor destroyed.

Everything in this universe is made up of the same stuff. It is just present in different forms and shapes.

Scientists have shown us through quantum physics, that everything at the subatomic level is pure energy. Hence humans are pure energy. The late Japenese scientist Dr. Emoto has proved that if water or food is exposed to a written word- it will respond to that word. Food and water exposed to words such as ‘war’ or ‘hate’ deteriorated quickly; where as those exposed to words such as ‘love’ and ‘thank you’ had not deteriorated. Everything in this universe is made up of energy including us. From a spiritual viewpoint, we are deathless souls within a physical body – a particle of the Divine, of the Creator, The Source – God.

If all of our bodies are energy and everything around us is energy, we are then connected with each other and everything around us. If this is the case, we are entangled and everything we do – how we behave and how we think and feel will be vibrating into this field of energy – this sea of energy. Hence it affects everyone in it – either directly or indirectly.

If we take this one step further, it would mean that the way you and I think and feel can change the world for the better. Our vibrating, positive energy can influence those around us.

The Law of Cause and Effect suggests that what you send out comes back to you with a strengthened force.

If you are sending out positive and good vibrations, reflecting your true emotions and feelings, the “boomerang” will come back to you with positive events. The same goes for emotions and thoughts of anger and hate. The “boomerang” will catch up with you sooner or later and give you a negative experience or event.

• Watch your thoughts, they become words.
• Watch your words, they become actions.
• Watch your actions, they become habits.
• Watch your habits, they become your character.
• Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.

Every thought or action has an effect or consequence. The nature of that effect depends upon the nature of the cause. If the cause is rooted in “love”, the effect will be “love”. If the cause comes from negative thoughts or “fear”, the results will be equally negative or fear based.

The Law of Cause and Effect states: For every action there is equal and opposite reaction.

Our thoughts, our words and the way we behave is a cause that sets off a wave of energy throughout the universe giving us back exactly what we put out and then some.

What does all this have to do with how you choose your next coach? Here’s how…

We find our way to others in the world merely through vibration. It’s the Law of Attraction. Our energy aligns itself with people and circumstances vibrating at the same frequency. People who vibrate at lower frequencies will often have tribes of friends and associates that match their vibration and the same holds true for those vibrating at a higher frequency.

Oftentimes when we are vibrating at lower frequencies, it’s impossible to see outside the current realm in which we reside. Why, because it’s familiar to us. Often our friends and family are there also and so it feels perfectly normal. Until of course we seek a higher level of enlightenment or choose a path different from that of the status quo. The way in which we see and experience life around begins to shift. As we raise our level of consciousness and align our subconscious beliefs with our desires – thus raising our vibration – the world around begins to transform. We begin attracting people and scenarios that match our frequency and will likely see a sloughing off of friends and relationships that no longer serve our highest good and the highest good of all.

How we show up in our world will have everything to do with who shows up to be our next coach. How we show up in our world has everything to do with who shows up to be our next clients, our friends and even our spouse.

Can you locate a coach with a lot of success who makes bunches of money, but is vibrating low? Sure you can. But if you look deeper into their lives you often will often discover a wake of destruction caused by the ripple effect of their vibration. Can you find a coach who is vibrating at a higher level and yet has very little “success” and money? Of course and when you look deeper into their lives you will often find them enjoying a sense of peace and tranquility at a soul-ullar level that many others are incapable of obtaining. So the key is finding a coach who thrives in each and enjoys the best of both worlds.

Because in this day and age, anyone can call themselves a coach, it’s even more important to make your decisions on who you will hire by observing energies, tribes, words and actions. Remember misery loves company and success breeds success. Unsuccessful low vibrational people criticize, condemn and complain. Successful, high vibrational people are too busy spreading love and prosperity to care what others are doing. Finding the right coach can be a daunting process so it’s equally important to trust your own intuition above and beyond the opinion of others. Your soul knows what’s best for you.

Pay attention to the words people use. There are high vibrational words and low vibrational words, (see short list below). Pay even closer attention to the behavior of the people you are considering. Do their actions demonstrate fear (low vibration) or love (high vibration). Low vibrational actions include making others wrong to prove themselves right, habitual anger, constant conflict, engagement in gossip, living from one crisis to the next, always criticizing and complaining, relationship hopping, constantly playing a victim role and the frequent use of profanity – just to name a few.

Look at the words here for a couple of minutes sense what they make you feel:





These words even if not spoken resonate at a low frequency, they offer a negative vibration.

Now take a look at these words for a couple of minutes sense what they make you feel:





These words resonate at a higher frequency and offer a positive vibration. Just reading a word over and over again will make you start to feel the emotion in it.

Back to energy, vibration and your next coach…

Seek to understand the kinds of results that your potential coach is getting in their lives, their relationships, with their clients and with their own goals? You will often find a coach’s tribe exhibiting many of the same characteristics they do because everything is energy and we attract what we are. “You will know their roots by their fruits.” Typically those who spend much of their time and energy in the lower frequency realm, have very little time or energy left to make money and so their behavior with and around money will also tell a story. Simply hearing the words “I cannot afford” will tell you a lot about someone. Discernment is key as you are seeking your path.


So before you set out to find your next coach consider these steps:

1. Do a thorough evaluation of your own beliefs, words, actions as well as your circle. The proof will be in the pudding.
2. Ask ten people who you respect how you show up to them. Get clear on your own core values because it wouldn’t be in your best interest to hire someone whose values do not align with yours.
3. Do a self-evaluation of your own life and the various outcomes you have continuously received that either align with your values or don’t, remembering that all outcomes are created and manifested by us. Doing a checkup from the neck up will often reveal to you everything you need to know about your own vibration.
4. Decide on the desired outcome you are looking to achieve for your life and business because we cannot attract goodness from a place of confusion.

Once you are clear on all of those and you are purposefully living in a space free from fear based words and actions and focused on love, you cannot help but to attract the people and circumstances that align with your desires and highest good. It’s all energy. Your intuition will also become more heightened and you will be much more equipped to use it in navigating your path.

I wish you much success in locating your next coach and I wish you nothing but a life of happiness, fulfillment and prosperity. Keep owning your world!